its a shame

Unfortunatley everyone that you are nice to is not nice back. I started what I thought was a friendship. Last week I found out this chick thought it was something more. And looking back- i see where for a while now- she's been telling everyone where we work that I have a thing for her.

It makes me sad. That she felt it necessary to attack me in this way. I have a partner that I am very happy with and have no desire to be unfaithful to my partner. Unfortunatley some people mistake friendship for something else. I like to joke around alot and I'm a very playful person. I've never had this happen to me before. its so sad. I'm sure somewhere in there a nice person exists. I have the feeling that early on she decided she didn't like me and then as time went by she found herself liking me, but had trashed me so much to my coworkers and her partner at the beginning-that she would look like an ass if she told them all she changed her mind. And so the nicer I was to her the more frustrated she became.

It may very well be that she thinks I have a thing for her and the nicer I was- she thought I was trying to come on to her- but that was just not true. And why if she felt nothing- did her message say I'm not available at this time- not just- I'm not available? These are the questions that will never be asked or answered.

Its sad. Its just plain sad that some people have to tear down others in order to make themselves feel better. Her loss. I wish she would just leave me alone and go on her way in peace, but she seems to be very angry and has now started getting in little jabs when we work together.

Its almost like she's mad at me for quashing her notion that I have a thing for her.
Life is strange. Now go away. Peace out.